I couldn't find the answer on their boards, thought someone here might know: I am bidding on an item and inquired as to the possibility of charging real shipping. The seller said she wouldn't do it because she wanted to recoup the eBay fees with the shipping she charged. Now while I understand the logic and I suppose there isn't much one can do about it, is it actually ok as per policy? Would I be an asshole to leave negative feedback on shipping because of that? Thanks!