Well that's extremely shitty of that buyer and of ebay! Wtf?! It's it you that offers the 30 day return or eBay in general? If it's you, can you somehow bit offer any returns on this item and say "As Is" condition and such? Or return on buyers expense..? And $200?? Did it cost around $100 to ship? Or were there other expenses? That's insane either way!