I didn't think you were talking crazy at all. My first instinct when stuff gets ugly online is to stay out, since I've seen a lot of dogpiles and don't like participating. And I was hoping, foolishly now I look back, that if he was serious about making an exit he'd walk his talk and do it with some grace. Instead he did exactly what he's done before, and that made me realise y'all were right, and it's an appropriate time for confrontations. That pushed me to post, even though I'm kicking a dead horse now.