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brianflynn
Site Admin
Joined: Wed Oct 19, 2005 9:20 pm Posts: 2674 Location: San Francisco
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 Chill out.
Everyone on the board needs to take a chill pill and relax. While Skullbrain has always had a fair share of non-moderated trash talking, it is really starting to get out of hand and resemble a bunch of internet vampires with nothing better to do than attack one another. Let's make this board fun to read, not a drag. Most of you are all 25+, so please start acting like civil adults. Remember: You are talking about TOYS so no matter you internet persona, no one else you know is going to understand why you like this stuff. It is a whole lot better to be friends with each other on here rather than mortal enemies locked in verbal combat over who has the cooler toy collection. A few items to consider: 1. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything. If you feel the overwhelming need to have to say something, say something constructive, don't just be an ass. 2. Who cares what toy you think is stupid? I can guarantee there are plenty of people who think your toys are stupid. Haven't we been through this before? please review this: http://www.skullbrain.org/bb/viewtopic.php?f=31&t=35830
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Tue Jun 26, 2012 9:37 pm |
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The Moog
Super Deformed
Joined: Thu Apr 15, 2010 5:39 am Posts: 5747 Location: Gert Brizzle UK
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 Re: Chill out.
 brianflynn wrote: Remember: You are talking about TOYS so no matter your internet persona, no one else you know is going to understand why you like this stuff. ^^ Never a truer word spoken 
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Wed Jun 27, 2012 2:42 am |
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psilo110
Side Dealer
Joined: Thu Mar 17, 2011 5:38 am Posts: 2476 Location: NY NJ PA
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 Re: Chill out.
original poster is insensitive to vampires
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Wed Jun 27, 2012 3:28 am |
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MattyBoomBatty
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Joined: Wed Apr 20, 2011 5:23 am Posts: 867 Location: Inside a Tangled Web of BS
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 Re: Chill out.
That was a good read, I hadn't seen that one before.
The worst thing I've read that I totally don't understand is guys going into threads about toys THEY DON'T EVEN COLLECT OR BUY just to criticise them and their creators....and some of the creators are forum members who decided to make toys while on SB....guys just like you and me. Each to their own, if you don't like that toy, don't go to that thread! It's not rocket science.
There's no growth in a forum without new members, this whole "Newbies don't know shit" outlook doesn't even make any sense since half of these "newbies" might have been collecting for 20 years. "New" doesn't mean "young, stupid and don't know what they're talking about" which seems to be what is thought here. Half of the people here I trade with are business professionals with amazing, high paid jobs across all industries yet people come here and talk down to guys with the exact same interests as them? It's a forum for like minded individuals!
What Brian says is right, people need to grow up and act their age. It's like mating time for Hooter monkeys, everyone's all puffed up, poking their arseholes at each other and flinging shit like primates.
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TiredChildren
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Joined: Sun Aug 16, 2009 9:12 pm Posts: 3416 Location: Melbourne, FL
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 Re: Chill out.
I like this. 
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Wed Jun 27, 2012 7:27 am |
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DrilOne
Comment King
Joined: Sat Apr 11, 2009 10:19 pm Posts: 1075
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 Re: Chill out.
What I have learned is most of the complainers don't even buy toys anymore. I used to try and be more part of Skullbrain but got sick of getting brought down. So now I browse and add a few words here and there and I am happier in my life.
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Wed Jun 27, 2012 11:35 am |
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akum6n
Prototype
Joined: Sat Nov 04, 2006 12:03 am Posts: 6162 Location: Shima
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 Re: Chill out.
MattyBoomBatty wrote: That was a good read, I hadn't seen that one before.
The worst thing I've read that I totally don't understand is guys going into threads about toys THEY DON'T EVEN COLLECT OR BUY just to criticise them and their creators....and some of the creators are forum members who decided to make toys while on SB....guys just like you and me. Each to their own, if you don't like that toy, don't go to that thread! It's not rocket science.
There's no growth in a forum without new members, this whole "Newbies don't know shit" outlook doesn't even make any sense since half of these "newbies" might have been collecting for 20 years. "New" doesn't mean "young, stupid and don't know what they're talking about" which seems to be what is thought here. Half of the people here I trade with are business professionals with amazing, high paid jobs across all industries yet people come here and talk down to guys with the exact same interests as them? It's a forum for like minded individuals!
What Brian says is right, people need to grow up and act their age. It's like mating time for Hooter monkeys, everyone's all puffed up, poking their arseholes at each other and flinging shit like primates. I don't think you've been around long enough to appreciate the culture of this forum. While it doesn't justify some of the things that are done and said at times, the reason that certain members/creators are derided where others are let go has a lot to do with the history of this niche hobby venue.
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Wed Jun 27, 2012 11:52 am |
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Nate
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Joined: Fri Jan 18, 2008 12:44 am Posts: 1748 Location: Los Angeles
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 Re: Chill out.
akum6n wrote: I don't think you've been around long enough to appreciate the culture of this forum. While it doesn't justify some of the things that are done and said at times, the reason that certain members/creators are derided where others are let go has a lot to do with the history of this niche hobby venue. - ^^^Something to consider before opening your mouths and there's always rule number 1.1. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything. If you feel the overwhelming need to have to say something, say something constructive, don't just be an ass.
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Wed Jun 27, 2012 5:23 pm |
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boon velvet
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Joined: Fri Nov 25, 2011 3:11 pm Posts: 1551 Location: a bird house in a southern swampland
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Thanks for being (t)here, Brian! Couldn't agree more!
Criticism about a piece makes sense, as it is a discussion board after all, but unnecessary negativity towards a member is a whole nother thing... and not a good one.
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Wed Jun 27, 2012 5:33 pm |
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Lixx
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Joined: Tue Oct 09, 2007 8:01 am Posts: 7380 Location: Deep in the Jungle
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 Re: Chill out.
It's a forum, there are bound to be disagreements. That's just the way the internet is. No one's saying the longer you've been here the more weight your arguments get, and vice versa with newer people. I think some people that have been through all the changes in this hobby over the years and have been active members here (that's an important part because yeah you could collect for 20 years and be a n00b here) just tend to be a little jaded at the next big thing discussed over an over. It creeps in after awhile at times. Yes toys are fun but you learn to block the low level noise that sometimes clutters forums, other times well you just have to let it out....
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Wed Jun 27, 2012 5:36 pm |
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boon velvet
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Joined: Fri Nov 25, 2011 3:11 pm Posts: 1551 Location: a bird house in a southern swampland
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Lixx wrote: ... you could collect for 20 years and be a n00b here. There was a lot of substance to think about in what you said Lixx, but concerning what I'm quoting,... :Thumb-Up_Smiley:
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Wed Jun 27, 2012 5:45 pm |
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ultrakaiju
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Joined: Fri Jan 14, 2011 1:51 pm Posts: 7316
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 Re: Chill out.
Well said Brian. And it is not a bad idea to reel things in from time to time, with the way that stuff can go on around here. I think it is sensible that everyone here is open to legitimate critique, heck, it can even help those starting out on the right path, but I never understood the purpose of coming in to a discussion just to dump all over something. People do need to chill out and just enjoy the general discussion, else what are you doing here. It's worth mentioning that there have been some real moments of positivity on this board too, and I for one really appreciate the work Brian, the mods, and others have put in to giving back to SB. Thank you.So, uh, yeah, let's follow all the advice and rules on here as we can - there are no shortage of threads to provide you with the information you need if you are willing to look - 'cause if Brian shuts this down, I for one have no idea where I will be spending my days (yes, I am a sad, sad person). 
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Wed Jun 27, 2012 6:13 pm |
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leadster
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Joined: Tue Oct 23, 2007 8:08 pm Posts: 931 Location: Mass: Out West
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 Re: Chill out.
ultrakaiju wrote: ...cause if Brian shuts this down, I for one have no idea where I will be spending my days (yes, I am a sad, sad person).  It's been done before (shutting down). I'm sure some other folks remember when SB had a timeout. It's easy to get caught up in the drama that creeps in around here sometimes, but if you step back it's just as easy to ignore most of it and focus on what appeals to you whether it's vintage, neo-kaiju, reissues or what ever.
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Wed Jun 27, 2012 7:20 pm |
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D-Lux
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Joined: Sun Apr 29, 2007 7:56 pm Posts: 1529 Location: DETROIT
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Take a step back. Take a deep breath. And remember, they are just toys.
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Wed Jun 27, 2012 9:33 pm |
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kurumonz
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Joined: Wed Jul 16, 2008 5:57 pm Posts: 2414
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 Re: Chill out.
It really isn't about what is collected or what topics are being discussed. It all boils down to individuals. I'm pretty cool with most of the stuff but occasionally do get riled up over things that are just too ridiculous. But there are some individuals that are just plain toxic with their sarcasm, ridicules, put-downs etc. So if your negative "contributions" outweighs positive ones you might want to re-think your participation. Indeed a timely and necessary post from Brian. Hey, don't forget, he allowed you guys to hang out in his backyard. Behave. 
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Thu Jun 28, 2012 11:13 pm |
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petitetoilonrouge
S7 Royalty
Joined: Sat Jan 31, 2009 9:53 pm Posts: 3621 Location: Where moose are lords.
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Is the forum more negative than usual? Mustn't read the same threads...
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Fri Jun 29, 2012 7:20 am |
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Kevlo9
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Joined: Sun Mar 02, 2008 1:52 pm Posts: 5005 Location: KFHC
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DRAMA = SUX TOYS = FUN
Drink more beer!
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audiodifficulties
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Joined: Sun Oct 16, 2005 6:51 pm Posts: 3948 Location: a font of negativity
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Yeah this is way worse than all the scams that go on. I'll take a Glenn Pogue situation over someones negative comments any day. Good thing those people got banned. That makes total sense. With all the support and participation of the mods on here I'm surprised you can find any of the negative posts. kurumonz wrote: But there are some individuals that are just plain toxic with their sarcasm, ridicules, put-downs etc. So if your negative "contributions" outweighs positive ones you might want to re-think your participation.
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Sat Jun 30, 2012 6:55 am |
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Anti Social Andy
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Joined: Thu Feb 02, 2006 10:06 am Posts: 8253 Location: The Grim North
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kurumonz wrote: But there are some individuals that are just plain toxic with their sarcasm, ridicules, put-downs etc. So if your negative "contributions" outweighs positive ones you might want to re-think your participation. I'll consider myself told and go sit on the naughty step to think about what I've done until I can play nice with others . . . or is that just toxic sarcasm?
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Sat Jun 30, 2012 8:02 am |
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666doll
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Joined: Fri Dec 22, 2006 9:28 am Posts: 4010 Location: Long Beach Rock City
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Scary Andy wrote: kurumonz wrote: But there are some individuals that are just plain toxic with their sarcasm, ridicules, put-downs etc. So if your negative "contributions" outweighs positive ones you might want to re-think your participation. I'll consider myself told and go sit on the naughty step to think about what I've done until I can play nice with others . . . or is that just toxic sarcasm? BANNED!
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Sat Jun 30, 2012 8:03 am |
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antithesis816
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Joined: Sun Apr 15, 2012 10:33 am Posts: 178 Location: Kent, Ohio
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I've been collecting this stuff since I was 16, but only recently joined this board. I am new here though, and I'm willing to roll with the punches. I used to be on the KR boards... And I never want to go back. Just glad to be a part of all this.
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Sat Jun 30, 2012 9:53 am |
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locomoto566
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Joined: Sun Jan 01, 2006 3:00 pm Posts: 5466 Location: right behind you
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 Re: Chill out.
Scary Andy wrote: kurumonz wrote: But there are some individuals that are just plain toxic with their sarcasm, ridicules, put-downs etc. So if your negative "contributions" outweighs positive ones you might want to re-think your participation. I'll consider myself told and go sit on the naughty step to think about what I've done until I can play nice with others . . . or is that just toxic sarcasm? I say we shut this mofo DOWN!
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Sat Jun 30, 2012 10:00 am |
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audiodifficulties
S7 Royalty
Joined: Sun Oct 16, 2005 6:51 pm Posts: 3948 Location: a font of negativity
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The information that used to only be shared here is now provided on so many different other locations its not like it would really matter. Minus the hype machine, which oddly doesn't even run for S7.
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Sat Jun 30, 2012 10:08 am |
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Kevlo9
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Joined: Sun Mar 02, 2008 1:52 pm Posts: 5005 Location: KFHC
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audiodifficulties wrote: Yeah this is way worse than all the scams that go on. I'll take a Glenn Pogue situation over someones negative comments any day. Good thing those people got banned. That makes total sense. With all the support and participation of the mods on here I'm surprised you can find any of the negative posts. kurumonz wrote: But there are some individuals that are just plain toxic with their sarcasm, ridicules, put-downs etc. So if your negative "contributions" outweighs positive ones you might want to re-think your participation. Really? Someone who clearly ripped folks off...over some negative comments?! I'm not down with negative comments and I'm glad some folks got banned, but I'm really not cool with ripping people off!
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Sat Jun 30, 2012 3:13 pm |
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Daimyo
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Joined: Sat Jun 05, 2010 10:16 am Posts: 2294 Location: The Banks
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 Re: Chill out.
I'm pretty sure Audio was being sarcastic. Enough with the diatribes though, the response to Brian's post is "Yup, you're right. Lets enjoy toys."
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